We’ve all been there. Night calls from frantic colleagues, rumors spreading like wildfire, disrespectful emails. and emotional outbursts during meetings. Workplace drama is more than just annoying; It’s a productivity killer.
Humans are wired for drama. In prehistoric times, drama meant danger, and recognizing danger was crucial to survival. But in today’s world, this characteristic does more harm than good, especially in the workplace.
Stephen Karpman’s Drama Triangle explains it perfectly. It describes three roles that people play in conflict: the victim, the persecutor and the savior. Victims feel helpless and blame others. Persecutors criticize and control. Rescuers try to help but often make the situation worse. The roles may change, but the drama remains.
The outcome? Extreme Ownership, a concept from former Navy SEALs Jocko Willink and Leif Babin. It’s about taking full responsibility for everything that happens on your job. No blame, no excuses. Leaders at all levels should practice this, creating a culture in which everyone is accountable for their tasks and responsibilities.
Here are the key principles:
- Take ownership: Leaders must take responsibility for their team’s successes and failures. This means not blaming others or external factors for problems, but rather looking inward and asking yourself, “What could I have done differently?”
- No Excuses: Avoid making excuses or shifting blame. Even if external factors contribute to a problem, an effective leader finds a way to overcome these challenges.
- Leading up and down the chain of command: Extreme ownership applies at all levels of an organization. Leaders must take charge and direct their superiors when necessary, proposing solutions and taking responsibility. Likewise, they must empower their subordinates to take ownership of their tasks.
- Decentralized command: Although the leader is responsible for everything, he must also allow his team members to take ownership of their specific roles. This promotes a culture of decentralized command where everyone understands their responsibilities and takes initiative.
- Prioritization and execution: Leaders must prioritize tasks and execute them effectively. This involves making difficult decisions and sometimes sacrificing less critical objectives for the sake of overall mission success.
When extreme ownership is at stake, the drama dissipates. Productivity soars. In my experience, organizations that adopt a “drama-free culture” are far more productive than those stuck in the drama triangle.
A “drama-free culture” is the competitive advantage that sets 21st century organizations apart.
So the next time you find yourself in a whirlwind of workplace drama, remember: the cost is too high. Go for extreme ownership and cultivate a “no drama culture.” The success of your organization depends on it.